Veronica Lynn Clark is a S.E.X. and intimacy expert, speaker, best-selling author, and teacher at CIVANA Wellness Resort & Spa. “My work is designed to inspire, awaken, and transform—empowering individuals to reconnect with their deepest selves and unlock new dimensions of joy, freedom, and authentic expression.” Learn about Veronica Lynn Clark…
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Hometown: Scottsdale, AZ
First job: If we’re not counting the two weeks I worked at Taco Bell when I was 15, my first job was at Morrison’s Restaurant as a hostess and server when I was 17. I quickly learned I was great with people and enjoyed the service industry.
Favorite ways to spend your free time in AZ: I love traveling the world, especially now that my children are grown—this has become a new and cherished pastime for me. But in my free time in AZ, I enjoy yoga, dancing, swimming, and spa visits. I also take singing lessons and spend time writing and reading, which bring me joy and allow me to express myself creatively.
Your biggest accomplishment and why: My biggest accomplishment has been to raise my children. They are truly gifts to me, and being their mother has been the most valuable experience of my life. Parenting has been both a mirror and a teacher, revealing areas within myself that needed healing and growth. It challenged me to look at how I showed up as both a parent and a person.
The biggest obstacle you overcame: The biggest obstacle that I have overcome was healing from all of the damage caused by the sexual trauma I experienced throughout my childhood and adolescence. That abuse, blended with many other traumatic events in my life, led me to a place where I didn’t love myself and didn’t see myself as valuable. I didn’t believe I was beautiful or worthy. I thought I wasn’t as good as others because of everything I had experienced. I carried so much shame about what I had been through and tried to distance myself from it as much as possible, pretending like it hadn’t happened. I was terrified that if anyone ever knew about the things that had happened to me, they, too, would see me as ugly, unworthy, and not good enough to be around. I thought they wouldn’t want to be near me.
This internal struggle affected every single aspect of my life—who I chose to marry, the work I did, how I showed up in my life, and even how I parented my children. In 2009, I began what was, at first, a very cautious and uncertain journey toward healing my self-worth and learning how to love and accept myself. It has taken many years to get to where I am now, but not only do I love myself, but I also embrace every part of who I am and all of the experiences I’ve had.
Someone who inspires you and why: Throughout the years, many people have inspired me, but right now, I find myself inspired by Zendaya. From what I can see at a distance, she carries herself with confidence, grace, and dignity. In a time when many different images of womanhood are portrayed, the way she presents herself is refreshing and inspiring. She embodies a sense of self-assurance and beauty, which is an important example for young women today. Zendaya shows that it’s possible to be confident and expressive while maintaining elegance and staying true to oneself.
I also draw deep inspiration from Harriet Tubman. In many ways, I relate to her journey. I often reflect on the courage it took for her to move through the darkness—not only to find her own freedom but to return and guide others toward theirs. Her story symbolizes what it takes to walk through life’s most difficult moments and then go back to help others find their way. This resonates with my work, as I see myself leading others through their personal “underground railroad”—guiding them through their inner darkness toward freedom and light. Harriet Tubman’s courage and selflessness are a constant reminder of the strength it takes to face challenges and the importance of using that strength to lift others.
Advice to someone pursuing a career path in what you do: Commit to your own healing and self-mastery first. Facilitating transformational spaces requires deep personal work—walk in the direction you want to guide others. Be consistent, embrace discomfort, and remain curious about your own growth.
Personal self-mastery is about owning all parts of yourself and recognizing the gifts in your experiences—even the ones that carry shame or embarrassment. Your ability to be comfortable with who you are will inspire others to do the same. Authenticity and self-acceptance are the foundation for powerful facilitation.
Finally, trust yourself and trust your intuition. You must believe in yourself and the gift you are offering the world. The more you trust yourself, the more your gifts awaken—and the more you inspire others through your work.
Favorite quote: “May all beings everywhere be happy and free, and may my thoughts, words, and actions contribute to that happiness and freedom for all.” –Lokah Samastah Sukhino Bhavantu
This Sanskrit prayer guides me, reminding me that happiness and freedom start within. It reflects that we’re all on this journey together—learning, growing, and experiencing life. No one is better or worse than anyone else; we’re all equal participants in this shared experience.
Something someone would be surprised to learn about you: I could share many fun tidbits, but my newest adventure is meditating using nail boards. I stand on galvanized nail boards made from beautifully hand-carved wood. I even travel with them—though they’ve caused a bit of excitement, like when I got stopped at the London airport!
What makes someone fabulous: What makes someone truly fabulous is their ability to shine brightly from within. They possess a deep confidence in who they are and love themselves completely, knowing they are a unique gift to the world. They are fully aware that they have something meaningful to offer and are unafraid to share it. In essence, they embody a powerful truth: by being fully themselves, they invite others to do the same—and that is the true essence of what makes someone fabulous.